The Complete Idiot Guide to Amazing Sex
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PART 3 FANTASTIC FOREPLAY
There is so much more to sex than just intercourse. Turning the lights down low, listening to sultry music, and dipping into aromatic massage oils are a few of the things you can do to enhance foreplay. By having thrills before sex, it will make the sexual charge even hotter, and your sexual experience more amazing!
Once you've mastered the subtle art of seduction, you'll be ready to make your first truly tactile move. This part will give you hands-on experience with step-by-step tips for everything from massage to giving your partner an orgasm with your hand to mutual masturbation. Then you'll learn more than just how to touch with your hands. This part also gives you step-by-step instructions on how to touch with your mouth—from lip tips for kissing to tips on how to have amazing oral sex!
It's your lover. The man (or woman) of your dreams. He (or she) steps out of the shower, dries off, then opens the door to your bedroom. You start to get excited when you realize that the two of you might make love tonight. When you wrap your arms around each other, you pucker up for that first sexy kiss, but something stops you. Your lover hasn't shaved, smells like bathroom cleaner, and keeps glancing at the clock.
Is this foreplay, you wonder, or is that foregone? Where's the music, the candlelight, and most important, the desire? You used to spend hours talking, dancing, staring into each other's eyes, and now this—a wet towel and no romance. Where were you when the excitement fizzzzzled out of your sex life? If this has happened to you, then read on. You can learn how to seduce your lover using creative foreplay.
What Is Foreplay?
When you hear the word foreplay, do you think of it as just kissing and touching? If you do, you're missing out on some sexy fun. In fact, foreplay is a way to prepare your lover and yourself for sex. It involves everything that leads up to sex, including the sexual tension and the romance that may build up for hours prior to sex.
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Enhancing the mood before you actually make your first move can make any sexual experience more thrilling. You can create a sexy setting based on everything from the clothes you wear to the way your bedroom looks to the food and drink you serve to the suggestive things you say. You can excite your partner and yourself by increasing sensuousness all day.
The intimacy that you create as part of this foreplay will help deepen the experience. Sure, sometimes people like to have sex by just tearing off their clothes, and having a quickie. But if you really want to increase your excitement, you should set a sexy scene to build the anticipation for sex. Think of yourself as a screenwriter who writes a movie script to include lots of sexual tension between the lead romantic characters. To set the scene for sex, you need to tap into all the sexual tension that you have within you. Your goal is to set a scene so sexy that your “co-star” is leaping tall buildings to get to you. Unleash your creative, sexy spirit by taking charge of the scenery and creating the kinds of scenes that will please you and your lover.
Get into the Mood
Setting the sexual mood starts hours in advance of the encounter. Early in the day, start thinking about your upcoming sexual experience, and share your thoughts with your lover. Try teasing him or her with some of the following ideas:
Ten Ways for All-Day Foreplay
Call your lover during the day, and in a sexy voice say, “I have a surprise for you when you get Home tonight.”
In the morning, slip a love note into his or her lunch that reads something like, “I wish you could have me for lunch, but you know you'll have me tonight for dessert.”
Send several romantic e-mail messages under a mysterious screen name from a “secret admirer.” Then, in the last message of the day, reveal that they were from you.
Spray a little of your perfume or cologne on your lover's coat before he or she leaves the house in the morning, so your smell lingers all day.
Take a sexy Polaroid picture of yourself and leave it where only your lover will find it during the day.
When your lover is getting dressed in the morning, give him or her a gift of a new sexy pair of underwear to wear that day.
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Send flowers to your lover at work.
Make an appointment to see your lover using a fake name.
