What are your criteria for a life partner?
By Glenn Yuan
21/03/2008
Are you still single? or married? Never mind, what are your criteria for a life partner? You might think about it so many times, but still puzzlers since you’re having a mature mentality. In this modern city, adult people covered so many his or her weaknesses, or something never let anyone know, every one want to show his/her strongpoint. To be wooer, or you‘re fall in love, or married, a loving marathon you are facing. Some people around me failed, and failed several times, when we talked about it, he/she ambiguously let it away. However, we have our own criteria in mind.
1. Feeling.
Some one fall in love at the first sight, they were relied on the feeling, but they couldn’t awarded that might fade away one day. So, please do not let the feeling fiddle-faddle your mind.
2. Self-discipline
There were some sayings: A man of honour has things must be done and things must not be done. A gentleman has his own noble wealthy.
3. Have sense of responsibility.
A reliable man/woman leads you living out of worry. Some one never stops dating, even married. Some one do not know how to shoulder responsibility, how to contribute to the family, career, society.
4. Filial to parents.
In Chinese traditional culture, filial to parents is the most important item in family.
5. Aspirant
One who aspires, as to advancement, honors, or a high position, for fame, promotion, success. Otherwise, you may stay at your original life you have been, but if you like.
We briefly talked the criteria we need to concern about; of course no one can be a perfect man, there have some thing we can’t tolerate, that warning you. For example: lie to you, hot temper, not cherish you, lazy, pessimistic, and aimless.
