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FS Gone are the days when men and women couldnt associate with each other. When we are asked whether boys and girls can associate with each other, most of us will say,"Yes, of course. Why not ?"『原版英语』-w q-pi7OE:tM
If we want to deal with the association between boys and girls properly, here are some "dos"and "donts"for you to follow.
1.Keep a normal and healthy state of mind.Our school and classes are made up of boys and girls. It is very natural for boys and girls to contact each other and build up the friendship with the students of the other sex.Generally speaking,we should broaden the circle of the association.We should make as many friends as possible.We should have more friends of the other sex instead of one or two. We should contact the students in public instead of in secret.
2.Contact students of the other sex warmly,generously and sincerely. Dont be too nervous or too shy in contact with a person of the other sex. In that case,it is very difficult for you to make a lot of friends, as no one likes a person who is too shy to say a word. If you are too shy a person,you can also find a way out.First of all,you can contact the students with the same interest and hobby with you. As both of you have much in common,you may have much to talk about. If you keep doing like that , little by little,you will gladly find you are also as free to express yourself as others.
3.Dont fall into the ditch of early love.The boys and girls at adolescence are rich in feeling and full of imagination.They are easy to regard the friendship as a sign of love and fall in love with each other at an early age.In my opinion,boys and girls in middle school are too young and too tender to shoulder the heavy duty of love.Early love is a green apple that cant be eaten.An apple wont taste sweet untill it is fully ripe.Do keep out of early love.
